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		<title>Katie and Jeff’s Wedding Reception</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2011 03:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Following the beautiful wedding at the Wayfarers Chapel, the cocktail hours began at the Villa. The Villa was technically not a reception destination, but a lavish condo in the nearby Terranea Resort where Jeff and Katie and separately, Katie’s family stayed during the trip to LA. It had three bedrooms,  ... <a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/2011/08/11/katie-and-jeff%e2%80%99s-wedding-reception/" class="readmore">[ more ]</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Following the beautiful wedding at the Wayfarers Chapel, the cocktail hours began at the Villa. The Villa was technically not a reception destination, but a lavish condo in the nearby Terranea Resort where Jeff and Katie and separately, Katie’s family stayed during the trip to LA. It had three bedrooms, a big open main room, dining room and kitchen and a bathtub large enough to fit the majority of the wedding party. We know, we took that bathtub picture, and a number of others while enjoying the food and booze, and between watching the great through-the-years slideshow and listening to the custom playlist that almost didn’t happen. I was responsible for the sound system and lost one of the cords – a male to male headphone jack cord. I was sure I killed the music, and was ready to give up. I couldn’t find it and who would happen to have such an obscure cord on them. Susan. Susan would. I was shocked, but she pulled the very cord needed right from her purse and the music played on.</p>
<p>The full-on reception was at the Point Vincente Lighthouse and Interpretive Center, just down the road, also on the water’s edge overlooking the Pacific Ocean. After introducing the party, Jeff danced with his new bride to a song I was not familiar with, then Katie danced with her dads to another song I didn’t know called Daughter in the Water. I think having kids has made me sentimental and I tried to have a moment holding Kaylee watching a father-daughter dance, but it didn’t happen cause she squirmed and wandered off (did I mention she’s walking now) and I had to get my cousins to go chase after her cause all the wedding party was holding positions through the dances. My cousin then upon collecting Kaylee subsequently dropped her. Only a little, and still Selena and I held composure and didn’t move out of our spots watching the dances. But it made us punchy, so by the time the Mother-Son dance came on and another groomsman Jim started to sway and sing along we were on board. Kaylee was fine by the way.</p>
<p>The dinner was is a delicious blur to me, cause I was focused on what comes after, the speeches, including the maid-of-honor Gretchen’s, the matron-of-honor’s, Selena’s, and my own the Best Man Speech. I’ve had to give one Best Man Speech before and maybe it was cause it was one of a series of speeches from 3 best men, and maybe it was cause we were told keep it real short, and I don’t think I gave it my all, and years later I still regret that. I couldn’t let that happen this time around, especially after the incredible Best Man Speech that Jeff gave at my wedding (which I am still seeking a video or transcribed copy if anyone has one).  I set Jeff’s speech as the high bar to reach and spent a few weeks working out what I hoped would be a good balance of storytelling and advise, both sweet and funny, and addressing both Jeff and Katie. I felt confident going in and really was happy with the delivery. Here is the transcript that I ad-libbed from:</p>
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<p>Thank you, so if I could have your attention, I’m Greg Robleto, I am Jeff’s younger brother and your best man for today’s festivities. I’ve been given a few moments to say a few words about the happy couple.</p>
<p>But before we get into talking about Jeff and Katie, I quickly want to say thank you to some very special people, without them, Katie and Jeff wouldn&#8217;t be here today. Quite literally. They have done so much to get us to this place today including raising two wonderful people that we are happy to celebrate today. Moms and dads, thank you.</p>
<p>Now back to the newlyweds, Mrs. Robleto, are we going with that? Right to share the same name with the kids. Future kids, calm down grandpa. Mrs. Robleto, you look incredible. And Mr. Robleto, you are looking pretty good too, even though I do believe you just copied my outfit tonight.</p>
<p>We used to dress alike all the time, granted it was when we were toddlers. I’ve seen photos. We were always dressed in the same outfits. I assume BOGO discounts must have been all the rage in the 70s.</p>
<p>But it was okay, toddler Greg was totally okay with it, cause he was in awe of his older big brother.  Toddler Greg would follow toddler Jeff anywhere. And then later, as I got older that hero-worship changed to genuine friendship, and while what can be greater for a kid with a ton of toys and a healthy imagination than to have a best friend who lives in the same house?</p>
<p>Growing up with Jeff was great. We’d spend hours playing, the two of us, in the unfinished basement of our Hockessin house, playing with all our Legos, and Transformers and our favorite, Star Wars action figures. I remember those days so fondly, how creative it all was, creating entire expansive worlds out of our shared imagination.</p>
<p>I’m trying to remember when exactly that period ended, but I’m not really great with names and dates. I tried falling back to Danaher Math, but I don’t see how knowing Grandpop Danaher fought in World War II in 1944 really helps pinpoint the date.</p>
<p>Please pardon me, that was kind of an inside joke, Danaher Math. One of many many inside jokes that I or many others in this room share with Jeff. It occurred to me that I could easily go down that path of referencing a bunch of inside jokes in this speech,  but I promised myself I wouldn’t. It would come off contrived working references to Phajze and Chicken-Chicken into this Best Man Speech. And No, busting out a Beep Bop Boop Bop Beep Robot Jeff impersonation wouldn’t make any sense to the majority of the guests. It’s bad form, I am not going to do any of that.</p>
<p>Where was I? Oh yes, I can’t remember dates and places. I’ve never really had to, because I could always just ask Jeff. He remembers everything. He’s a living database of his own personal history: past experiences,  events both large and small he can remember dates, times, places and who was there. I always enjoyed this trait about my big brother, because, one,  it meant I never had to remember anything “I don’t know, go ask Jeff.” And two because I took it to be a testament for how much Jeff cares about the moments in life that were special to him.</p>
<p>Jeff can surely provide some details starting from elementary or middle school,  but it’s high school and college memories, where he met so many of these great friends we have here today, where Jeff can provide all sorts of dates and times and places. And from the first time he met Katie. We’ll he could outdo a picture by providing at least a thousand words about the moment, where they were, what she wore, what he was thinking, what they ate.</p>
<p>I envy how much Jeff can turn-on his memory and take in moments he can tell are the big ones in his life. I’m sure every aspect of today is being properly recorded, because this is as special as it gets. So, Jeff, enjoy this moment, take it in, this moment right now with all the friends and family who have traveled great distances  to be here with you today.</p>
<p>And Katie now it’s your turn. It’s your turn to join Jeff in creating whole worlds out of your shared imagination, except you will be creating the vision of the world you two want to share: what you want to do, where you want to live, who you want to be; and as far as I can tell, creating that vision is the secret to a happy marriage: so you end up not just looking at each other, just together looking in the same direction and taking that journey together.  That and remembering that the journey is the fun part, no matter where you arrive. But I do believe, that whatever you two dream for yourselves, you will be able to achieve it cause you&#8217;ll be doing it together.</p>
<p>So, please raise your glass and share with me in wishing for Katie and Jeff a tremendous journey full of happiness and love.</p>
<p>Cheers!</p>
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<p>And here is the latter half on a somewhat shaky but still discernable Flip-cam video captured by our friend, Erin. Thank you for sharing this, Erin.</p>
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<p>Following the orating, we three speech-givers congratulated ourselves with a shot from the bar of something nasty, and that set the tone for a lot of booze and merriment and plenty of dancing, notably with my wife, my Mom and my daughter There was a great energy full of laughter and good times.</p>
<p>At the very end of the night, after my baby and my cousin’s baby were both tuckered out in our baby tent, I was giving tips on Jeff’s behalf to the DJ and caterers and in doing so saw the barkeep packing up the booze. “Where is that going?” I asked.  “I don’t know” he stated “it belongs to the bride and groom, who should it go to?”  “You can give that to me” I confidently replied, and with that I was immediately dubbed the host of the after-party, the after-after-party, and the following night’s party, the final night in LA party and a week later mini-party up in San Francisco.</p>
<p>Oh, did I mention as a gift for being a groomsman, Jeff gave us all custom bobble-heads of ourselves?  Here&#8217;s mine and a few more pictures:</p>
<div id="attachment_1400" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5395.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1400" title="Greg and Bobble-Greg with Greg's Dad" src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5395.jpg" alt="Greg and Bobble-Greg with Greg's Dad" width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Greg and Bobble-Greg with Greg&#39;s Dad</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1394" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5314.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1394" title="Friends at the Cocktail Hour" src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5314.jpg" alt="Friends at the Cocktail Hour" width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Friends at the Cocktail Hour</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1395" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5362.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1395" title="Chicken-ChIcKeN with the Bride" src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5362.jpg" alt="Chicken-ChIcKeN with the Bride" width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Chicken-ChIcKeN with the Bride</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1396" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5372.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1396" title="Glasses were clinking" src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5372.jpg" alt="Glasses were clinking" width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Glasses were clinking</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1397" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5376.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1397" title="Jill giving her new sister a bit of advice" src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5376.jpg" alt="Jill giving her new sister a bit of advice" width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Jill giving her new sister a bit of advice</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1398" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5380.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1398" title="Guests at the Cocktail Hour watching the through-the-years slideshow" src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5380.jpg" alt="Guests at the Cocktail Hour watching the through-the-years slideshow" width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Guests at the Cocktail Hour watching the through-the-years slideshow</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1399" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5384.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1399" title="Jeff at the Cocktail Hour" src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5384.jpg" alt="Jeff at the Cocktail Hour" width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Jeff at the Cocktail Hour</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1401" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5398.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1401" title="The movie themed table settings at the reception." src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5398.jpg" alt="The movie themed table settings at the reception." width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The movie themed table settings at the reception.</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1392" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/DSC03914.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1392" title="Sunset over the Pacific Ocean" src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/DSC03914.jpg" alt="Sunset over the Pacific Ocean" width="500" height="282" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Sunset over the Pacific Ocean</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1393" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/DSC03915.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1393" title="Jeff and Katie cutting the cake." src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/DSC03915.jpg" alt="Jeff and Katie cutting the cake." width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Jeff and Katie cutting the cake.</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1402" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5409.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1402" title="Two tired babies asleep in one baby tent." src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/IMG_5409.jpg" alt="Two tired babies asleep in one baby tent." width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Two tired babies falling asleep in one baby tent.</p></div>
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		<title>Recreating the Hunger Games</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 16:15:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>For my birthday this year, Selena put together a most fun event modeled after the book series The Hunger Games.</p>
<p>She had us all meet at Bellevue State Park in Delaware and had set up a circle with 16 starting points around a Cornucopia of supplies in the center. When she  ... <a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/2011/03/28/recreating-the-hunger-games/" class="readmore">[ more ]</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For my birthday this year, Selena put together a most fun event modeled after the book series The Hunger Games.</p>
<p>She had us all meet at Bellevue State Park in Delaware and had set up a circle with 16 starting points around a Cornucopia of supplies in the center. When she said &#8220;Go&#8221; everyone either ran in to grab supplies or ran away because they were trying to stay alive, which meant keeping on their flag football flags on.</p>
<p>From the start, like in the Hunger Games books, a few died quickly, many scattered and some came away with the supplies. But you were never quite sure why or when the supplies would matter, that would come later as the Gamemakers (Selena and crew) changed the game. As the game progressed, we received text messages from the Gamemakers telling us if they were entertained new rules.</p>
<p>One memorable rule change, at some point when the deaths were not stacking up quickly enough, was all participants had to gather in the center of the Cornucopia ring, link arms with a fellow player, and then the Gamemakers unleashed the kids to pull away as many flags as they could in a minute.</p>
<p>It was intense and exhausting, since the way to win was to get everyone else&#8217;s flags and that meant a lot of running and chasing, or being chased. I found myself being chased a lot, and one time, when Selena changed the rules to make my specific flags worth triple points. Iâ€™m pretty sure all the players in the game were running after me at top speed at once.</p>
<p>In the end there was a winner, our friend Jason, and a tie for second between our friend Joe and my brother Jeff.</p>
<p>Thanks to everyone who came out to play today in the cold and the mud, and special thanks to Selena and Beth for putting this fun event together.</p>
<p>Here are photos from the event:</p>
<div class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Hunger Games" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/5567654383/"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5230/5567654383_7379128a8a.jpg" alt="Hunger Games" width="500" height="268" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Gathering supplies from the Cornucopia</p></div>
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<div class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 343px"><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Hunger Games" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/5568241044/"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5173/5568241044_f94489a154.jpg" alt="Hunger Games" width="333" height="500" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">You have to watch your back when organizing your supplies</p></div>
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<div class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="When Kids Attack" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/5567654953/"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5057/5567654953_0ba20b3ba1.jpg" alt="When Kids Attack" width="500" height="333" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Attack of the Kids</p></div>
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<div class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Tired" href="http://www.gregandselena.com/photos/photo/5567655207/tired.html"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5177/5567655207_3e02d14113.jpg" alt="Tired" width="500" height="333" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Tired from the chase but having a blast</p></div>
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<div class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="The winners of Hunger Games" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/5568241582/"><img class=" " src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5027/5568241582_05caa802b3.jpg" alt="The winners of Hunger Games" width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The winners of Hunger Games</p></div>
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<div class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="The participants in the Hunger Games" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/5567655483/"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5301/5567655483_c85d7fc3f9.jpg" alt="The participants in the Hunger Games" width="500" height="282" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The participants in the Hunger Games</p></div>
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<div class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 510px"><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Everyone dies in Hunger Games" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/5568241838/"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5295/5568241838_cedb9a6621.jpg" alt="Everyone dies in Hunger Games" width="500" height="334" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Everyone dies in Hunger Games</p></div>
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		<title>Planning a ski weekend in 15 minutes</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2011 03:02:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Every year a group of our friends go on a ski trip to the Poconos for the last weekend in January. This year, as always, I had it on my calendar, so we packed up the gear, including all we needed for baby Kayleeâ€™s first ski trip.  We even  ... <a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/2011/02/01/planning-a-ski-weekend-in-15-minutes/" class="readmore">[ more ]</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every year a group of our friends go on a ski trip to the Poconos for the last weekend in January. This year, as always, I had it on my calendar, so we packed up the gear, including all we needed for baby Kayleeâ€™s first ski trip.  We even coordinated with our friends Tanya and Jason from further away, in Fredericksburg VA, who only a couple days earlier accepted our invitation to come with us. Everything was all set to go as soon as we got out of work on Friday.</p>
<p>It was Friday morning that I saw an email from Bill, whom I knew would be joining us in the ski lodge later that evening. He wrote â€œWho wants to come over my place tonight to play Rockband?â€ I started to write him back saying, â€œYou wonâ€™t be at home playing Rockband tonight, youâ€™ll be on the ski tripâ€, but then something gave me pause. I sent a text to my brother â€œHey, dumb question, but when is the ski trip, tonight right?â€ to which I got quick replies â€œNo, in two weeks.â€</p>
<p>Crap, thatâ€™s right, itâ€™s all coming back to me now. We changed the dates because they couldnâ€™t give us the full weekend. We had had lengthy discussions via email about that, and I weighed in supporting the new dates, but I never changed my calendar.</p>
<p>At that point I started a flurry of phone calls to Selena then Jason to let them know that even though our bags are packed and weâ€™re thinking ski slopes, we have no Pocono destination to go to this evening. Thatâ€™s when we all came to the same conclusion. What about Duke?</p>
<p>Selena and I, and Tanya and Jason have all been meaning to get together with our friends Duke and Lauren for a while now anyway. The six of us always have too good a time together but recently schedules keep conflicting.</p>
<p>But why call Duke today? Because Dukeâ€™s family owns a ski house in the Poconos. Would it be possible the house was available this weekend and that Duke and Lauren too could, at a few hours notice, pick up and go to the mountains for the weekend?  Yes and yes.</p>
<p>And thatâ€™s how we suddenly went from a ski trip planned months in advance to a ski trip planned in about 15 minutes.  It turned out great, we got to ski, laugh, play board games, and catch up with a lot of dear friends.</p>
<p>And bonus, we still have another ski weekend in two weeks.</p>
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		<title>Learning to reconnect with old friends</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 12:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>We have some friends that we see nearly every month for a book club or game night. If we had a free night without Kaylee, I imagine weâ€™d have no qualms with calling them up to see if they are available to get together.</p>
<p>Contrastingly, we have really close friends that  ... <a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/2010/12/01/learning-to-reconnect-with-old-friends/" class="readmore">[ more ]</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have some friends that we see nearly every month for a book club or game night. If we had a free night without Kaylee, I imagine weâ€™d have no qualms with calling them up to see if they are available to get together.</p>
<p>Contrastingly, we have really close friends that are losing touch with. As each day passes they become further away and it reaches a point where it becomes awkward to contact them out of the blue when we have a free night to randomly get together. These friendships are going the route of requiring pre-planned get-togethers.</p>
<p>And if I want to reach way back to friends from high school, for the most part I havenâ€™t kept in touch with at all. So a random free night is right out, even a pre-planned event seems unlikely. Iâ€™m assume weâ€™ll be reconnecting on the every five year schedule of reunions.</p>
<p>Except St. Marks doesnâ€™t do 15 year reunions, so there was to be a decade long gap between the 10 year and 20 year events. And a few enthusiastic members of my class werenâ€™t happy about the wait and actually reached out to the entire class of 1994 to come together at a bar to an off-cycle unsponsored 16 year high school reunion.</p>
<p>That was this past weekend, and I had a great time reconnecting with my former classmates. But moreover, I came away inspired not to over-think how much time has passed, and just reach out to those friends Iâ€™ve been losing touch with and see if they want to get together.</p>
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		<title>Gifttrap â€“ Itâ€™s as if your Amazon wishlist was turned into a board game.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Oct 2010 12:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p class="wp-caption-text">GiftTrap the game</p>
<p>I love the award-winning German board games that take forever to set up, but are still challenging, complex and fun to play (Iâ€™m looking at you Space Alert, Agricola and even to some degree Settles of Catan). So I was ready to be snooty and dismissive when  ... <a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/2010/10/19/gifttrap-%e2%80%93-it%e2%80%99s-as-if-your-amazon-wishlist-was-turned-into-a-board-game/" class="readmore">[ more ]</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1163" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 220px"><a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/gifttrap.gif"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1163 " title="gifttrap" src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/gifttrap-300x300.gif" alt="GiftTrap" width="210" height="210" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">GiftTrap the game</p></div>
<p>I love the award-winning German board games that take forever to set up, but are still challenging, complex and fun to play (Iâ€™m looking at you Space Alert, Agricola and even to some degree Settles of Catan). So I was ready to be snooty and dismissive when I was introduced to a game that was â€œlike Apples to Applesâ€, but to my surprise, Iâ€™m a big fan of Gifttrap.</p>
<p>Gifttrap is a game of giving and receiving gifts. From a series of gift options, you have to determine what would be the best gift to give each other player as well as decide what you yourself would love or hate to receive.Â  The scoring is based on the amount of matches on both sides â€“ giving and recieving. You have to be stellar at both to win the game.</p>
<p>Unique elements of the game are that it can be played with up to eight people, which is perfect dinner party size.Â  It is simple to set up and easy to learn. But I think one of the most interesting elements is that you get to be yourself, not a medieval farmer or settler or astronaut â€“ you are you.Â  To win the game you need to know yourself and what you like and hope that other people do too.</p>
<p>I recommend Gifttrap (available on Amazon) for just about anyone to own, but put the one caveat that you should probably only play it with people you know well, should know well, or want to know better.</p>
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		<title>Fool&#8217;s Errand &#8211; The Report</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 16:58:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>On Friday, January 29th I was standing beside a big projection screen in front of the entire company of The Motley Fool. I took a deep breath and began:</p>
<p>â€œHi everyone, Iâ€™m Greg, and if you donâ€™t know me it may be because you started working here in January and Iâ€™ve  ... <a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/2010/03/02/fools-errand/" class="readmore">[ more ]</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Friday, January 29th I was standing beside a big projection screen in front of the entire company of The Motley Fool. I took a deep breath and began:</p>
<blockquote><p>â€œHi everyone, Iâ€™m Greg, and if you donâ€™t know me it may be because you started working here in January and Iâ€™ve been out most of the month on my Foolâ€™s Errand.â€</p>
<p>â€œI think the Foolâ€™s Errand is a fantastic initiative. I had the most remarkable and rewarding time. But wait, this is The Motley Fool, we donâ€™t evaluate success based just on word of mouth. No, we look at the numbers. So I submit to you, Foolâ€™s Errand â€“ The Report.â€</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4009/4399614945_6c07cc94e9.jpg"><img class=" aligncenter" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4009/4399614945_6c07cc94e9.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="386" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>â€œAll right, letâ€™s dive right in.â€</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/4400382834/"><img class=" aligncenter" title="Moving In" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4030/4400382834_d5e9103f3f.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="386" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>â€œI spent the first half of the trip moving into my new home. You can see in the upper left a chart of which level of my home I spent time unpacking. It turned out most of the work needed was in the attic and basement. Notice here too the number of boxes left to unpack: one. Iâ€™m very proud of that.&#8221;</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/4399615031/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2709/4399615031_6d0621ee84.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="386" height="500" /></a> &#8220;Enough about moving in, lets go on to the road trip. I drove down to Florida with my wife and my puppy, 2969 miles in total. I am presuming thatâ€™s expendable, Iâ€™ll be submitting an reimbursement report later today.â€</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/4400382940/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2775/4400382940_9c1683a5a8.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="386" height="500" /></a>â€œYou can see here a breakdown of where I slept each night of the Foolâ€™s Errand, about half in my home, and then a little less with relatives and less still in hotels and B&amp;Bs including SoBe You in South Beach which I highly recommend and La Quinta in Savannah whichâ€¦ well, not so much.â€</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/4400382966/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4072/4400382966_60e9b8674c.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="386" height="500" /></a>â€œWhile in Florida we travelled down to the Florida Keys and then back to Orlando to spend some time with family. We did hit all four Disney parks in one day. You can see in the lower right here a breakdown of time spent in each park, pretty balanced Disney experience. Also, I want to call attention to this score right here, 39 or -14. Yes, I played a sick game of mini golf Â and held the low score of the day at Fantasia Gardens.â€</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/4399615179/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4072/4399615179_e0fc3b488f.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="404" height="500" /></a> &#8220;The weather was surprisingly cold, you see here 19 degrees in Orlando. The locals found that novelty fun and interesting. Meâ€¦ not so much, I knew cold, I left cold back in DC, I wanted some warmth, which did come towards the end of the trip, 78 degrees on the last days in Orlando.&#8221;</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/4399615229/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4072/4399615229_a756162fa5.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="386" height="500" /></a> â€œLetâ€™s talk about what I ate while I was away. I totally recommend Puerto Sagua in South Beach for excellent Cuban food, and hey, did you know that there is still a Bennigans in operation in Orlando?! I was so excited to get to have a Monte Cristo sandwich again.&#8221;</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/4400383080/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4004/4400383080_510a7a1928.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="386" height="500" /></a> â€œYou can see her a breakdown of what I drank. We all know itâ€™s important that we have a nice variety of beverages, and I think I achieved that here.â€</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/4400383128/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2723/4400383128_4371deeee3.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="403" height="500" /></a> â€œNow, exerciseâ€¦ letâ€™s not talk about exercise, wasnâ€™t much to speak of.â€</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/4400383160/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4027/4400383160_a452567d2d.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="385" height="500" /></a>â€œAh, entertainment, yes. I highly recommend the Finding Nemo Stage Show in Animal Kingdom, it is Broadway caliber, by far the best thing I watched while I was away. And the worstâ€¦ that would be my Eagles losing to the Cowboys twice while I was away. Ugh, Cowboys.â€</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/4399615369/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4029/4399615369_d49239bfc9.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="386" height="500" /></a>â€œOh, thereâ€™s my dog. I am very happy about this number, zero accidents in the house or car, she finally became housebroken during this trip. I will also point out this number here, six attacks by poodles. I donâ€™t know what the deal with ShihTzus and Poodles but there is some bad blood there.â€</p>
<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Fool's Errand - The Report" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/grobleto/4399615407/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4013/4399615407_4058299062.jpg" alt="Fool's Errand - The Report" width="386" height="500" /></a>â€œFinally, if I may tell a quick story, two years ago my wife and I got married on a very warm day in the Florida Keys, and a staff member at the resort, trying to be helpful, put our cake, well actually cake topper, in the freezer to keep when it should have been out thawing. When it came time to cut the cake it was frozen solid, there was no penetrating it. So, my wife and I never got to eat our wedding cake.â€</p>
<p>â€œKnowing I had this opportunity Â of the Fool&#8217;s Errand, I convinced my wife to join me on the trip to Florida, and we contacted that same bakery and ordered that same cake, and we went to that same spot on the resort where we married. It was two years late, but we finally got to enjoy our wedding cake. And it was damn good too.â€</p>
<p>â€œThat alone made this whole Foolâ€™s Errand worthwhile, so thank you The Motley Fool for providing me this opportunity, and thank you all for letting me share my experiences with you today.â€</p></blockquote>
<p>And with that I returned to my seat, smiling, knowing that I had made the most of my Foolâ€™s Errand and the most of presenting it back to the people at The Motley Fool.</p>
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		<title>Another successful 8K</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 21:52:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Selena</dc:creator>
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<p>A little late on the post, but here&#8217;s to another successful race at the Rockville Twilight 8K, so named for the time of day it is run, not because we were chased by sparkly vampires. Although, I definitely still had the monster complex going on.</p>
<p>But let&#8217;s face it, here&#8217;s the  ... <a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/2009/08/17/another-successful-8k/" class="readmore">[ more ]</a>]]></description>
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<p>A little late on the post, but here&#8217;s to another successful race at the Rockville Twilight 8K, so named for the time of day it is run, not because we were chased by sparkly vampires. Although, I definitely still had the <a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/2008/07/22/what-are-we-running-from/">monster complex</a> going on.</p>
<p>But let&#8217;s face it, here&#8217;s the real reason this race is awesome:</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-863" title="twilight8k" src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/twilight8k-300x225.jpg" alt="twilight8k" width="300" height="225" /></p>
<p>And the drinks were free with registration.</p>
<p>For more images, find us on flickr! And race/drink with us next year!</p>
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		<title>Our own, personal EW</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2009 04:24:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Selena</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>For the past few years now, I&#8217;ve had a TV informant with an uncanny ability to scoop Entertainment Weekly and the TV Guide on every &#8220;Best Show You&#8217;re Not Watching.&#8221; Our friend Doug has been able to pick out the gems to follow, that then break out into phenomenons. Then  ... <a href="http://www.gregandselena.com/2009/04/21/our-own-personal-ew/" class="readmore">[ more ]</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="size-full wp-image-710 alignleft" title="breakin_bad1" src="http://www.gregandselena.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/breakin_bad1.jpg" alt="breakin_bad1" width="240" height="183" />For the past few years now, I&#8217;ve had a TV informant with an uncanny ability to scoop Entertainment Weekly and the TV Guide on every &#8220;Best Show You&#8217;re Not Watching.&#8221; Our friend Doug has been able to pick out the gems to follow, that then break out into phenomenons. Then these shows get big. Really big. My favorite shows of all time, Emmy-Award winning, fanatic-fan followings big.</p>
<p>Consider Doug&#8217;s track record: In 2008, he brought us Gossip Girl while the CW was still re-running its episodes non-stop, desperately hoping to pick up an audience. Before that, it was Mad Men, which went on to rake in the Emmys MONTHS after the TV Informant put it on our radar. By the first episode of True Blood, the Informant was already a fan on Facebook, and I knew I had to watch it, just because he picked it. I went on to watch the entire season in three school nights, leaving all my other shows by the wayside. Then I watched the whole thing again.</p>
<p>We are still behind on 2009&#8242;s prediction: Breaking Bad. The last episode I saw of this show was the most morally heart-wrenching thing I had ever seen on TV. Immediately afterwards, I remember thinking, &#8220;Damn you, Doug!&#8221; and proceeded to stay awake all night thinking about the show and questioning my morals.</p>
<p>Typically, we have so much to watch between the DVR, Tivo AND Netflix now (worthy of a post of its own), that we are very resistant to picking up new shows. At least not without a lot of research before we give in. But the moral of this story is that if the Informant says not to miss it, the space WILL get made and we convince ourselves that whatever we dropped won&#8217;t be worth missing the latest recommendation for.</p>
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